Trying To Conceive? Here’s Why Understanding ‘Why’ Comes Before ‘How’ | Health and Fitness News
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Parenthood begins with understanding. While the path may often feel uncertain, taking the time to understand why things aren’t going according to plan is the most empowering step
Starting with a gynecologist helps build that bridge. It ensures couples are not just reacting, but responding with purpose backed by science, empathy, and clarity.
In the emotional and often overwhelming journey of trying to conceive, many couples leap straight into the “how” – how to get pregnant, how IVF works, how to boost fertility. But what’s often overlooked is the “why.” Why is conception taking time? Why is the body responding a certain way? Why might assisted reproductive technology be needed? The answers don’t lie in a Google search or a casual conversation, they begin in a gynecologist’s office.
Dr. Yashica Gudesar, Director and Unit Head, Ob-Gyn, Max Dwarka, shares all you need to know:
The Role of the Gynecologist: Partner, Not Just Provider
In today’s world, where information is plentiful but personalized consultation is scarce, the gynecologist’s role is especially important. A caring doctor is not just someone who orders tests; they are someone who listens, explains uncertainties, and walks the path of uncertainty with the couple.
A gynecologist doesn’t just prescribe. They evaluate medical history, lifestyle, menstrual health, and emotional well-being. Often, the root cause is something that can be addressed with simpler interventions, irregular ovulation, thyroid issues, PCOS, or mild male-factor infertility. IVF is a remarkable scientific achievement; however, it isn’t the first method of treatment for everyone. Knowing if you need it comes from understanding why you’re having trouble conceiving in the first place.
The First Step Is Understanding, Not Treatment
For couples trying to conceive especially after months of disappointment, it can feel urgent to act, to jump straight to IVF or other advanced treatments. But most times, that is not where the journey needs to start. It must begin with a proper consultation with a gynecologist or reproductive specialist who takes the time to determine the underlying reasons for infertility.
This initial step is about gaining understanding, not leaping to intervention. Starting from a place of awareness can save time, reduce stress, and even prevent unnecessary treatments.
When Should You Go for an Infertility Consultation?
There is no one-size-fits-all solution, but general medical guidelines recommend that:
Couples younger than 35 should see a fertility doctor if they have been unable to conceive after a year of trying.
Couples over 35 should seek help after six months.
In some cases, such as known reproductive conditions, irregular cycles, or a history of miscarriage, it’s wise to consult even earlier.
The decision to take that first step can feel daunting, but it’s a proactive one. It’s not about labeling anyone as infertile, but about opening a dialogue with professionals who can offer clarity, support, and a plan.
IVF Is a Step Forward, Not a Last Resort
There is still significant stigma and fear surrounding IVF. Many people think it is a last resort, a demoralizing detour on the journey to parenthood. But IVF can be a powerful and hopeful option, as long as couples enter it with informed guidance. That said, the best way to approach IVF is through medical evaluation not desperation.
Starting with a gynecologist helps build that bridge. It ensures couples are not just reacting, but responding with purpose backed by science, empathy, and clarity.
Parenthood begins with understanding. While the path may often feel uncertain, taking the time to understand why things aren’t going according to plan is the most empowering step. Before the tests, before the timelines, before the “how,” simply asking “why” and consulting a trusted gynecologist to explore the next steps is vital.
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